NS, first of all please have manners when you post.Nosuperstition wrote:I haven't had direct sex with any other person on the planet up until now,so I cannot say,but a muslim forum member at bismiaallahuma discussion forum where all the posts presently stand deleted or unavailable said once that sex is beautiful you moron.manfred wrote:Heaven and golden houses is nonsense, as are most imaginative descriptions of heaven.If God is that which completes you utterly and fulfils all desire, not by providing it at face value, but by giving something sublimely better instead, "golden house" will seem like a dung heap.
And the idea that God bribes people with possession (or sex) really is stupid.
This is perhaps not one of your highlights, but let me respond nonetheless.
I did not say anything at all about sex, but about the idea that God bribes people with things, be it possessions or even sex, as you find in Islam.
Your response was that someone neither of us us knows said "sex is beautiful", so, even though you had no experience of it, he must be right and I am a "moron"... even though I made no comment about the "beauty" of sex at all.
So, just because this guy, whoever he is, said this, it must be right? And you do not have your own views at all?
Sex comes in all kinds of forms.... It could be about two people who truly love each other and are committed to each other, having sex. Sure, there is beauty in that, even if both of them do not match what people will see as "body-perfect".
There is, on the other end of the scale, a bunch of middle aged men drugging and repeatedly raping a young girl, until she needs surgery to repair her vagina and rectum. There really are few things uglier than that.
Both is sex. So is sex always "beautiful"? Or does it depend on something else to make it beautiful?
Finally, a comment about "golden houses".... who builds "golden houses? You find that are people like kings, emperors, tycoons, tyrants and dictators. In fact anyone who feels the need to tell others he or she is better than them.
Are you like that? Then remember that ALL you have is only for rent.... you have it for a while, and when you die it will be shared by others or simply thrown away. That includes any "golden house"....
Perhaps you want a "golden house" in the afterlife to show off to other people? If you have a need to show off, you are not ready for an invitation God makes for all equally. If you can sit at a table as just one of a great many, and if you don't care what the others have or are, then you are ready.