manfred wrote:So according to you, when a husband takes a second wife, HIS NEW WIFE ALSO marries the first wife?
no, but his second wife become family of his first wife!
manfred wrote:Agreeing that her husband does something, is not the same as doing it yourself
so, the standard is based on who do it? in polygamous marriage, who perform the marriage contract is only the husband, so how can the husband be calculated 2?
manfred wrote:I know a very nice woman in Indonesia. Her husband got caught having an affair with the wife of the local imam. The imam divorced his wife. The first wife of this man, the woman I know, told her husband she better marry this divorced woman so that she does not starve, as it was all his fault from the start. The two women never liked each other and hardly talk to each other. They live in separate places.
don't like doesn't mean doesn't accept, but based on QS. 24:3 she should divorce her husband!
manfred wrote:The way I look that this is like this: I do not judge what domestic arrangement people make for themselves. Live with three women, a donkey and a canary, for all I care. But a MARRIAGE is always between just ONE man and ONE woman.
that's not true based on religion of Abraham!