Why would allah condemn secret relationships? Surely it is not secret from him? BTW, mo was not so open and honest. Even the quran tells us he hid what was in his hear after he saw his half naked adopted daughter in law.ahmed2010 wrote:Prophet, peace be upon him, said marriage is always an open ceremony. If its done in secret, then its not marriage. Its a sinful affair. Allah condemns secret relationships. Prophet (pbuh) taught that couple must be open and honest as to with whom they want to spend the rest of their lives.
So a 8 or 9 year old is a "woman"? How does a 8 year old "agree"? Does a 8 year old know what marriage is? Do you think an 8 year old body is ready? Do you ignore the medical problems for the girl when she is forced to have sex at such a young age.If you like a women of age 8 or 9 or whatever, then you can marry her if she argees and her parents agree. Why should other people tell you that you can't do this or do that.
A lot of "other people" who tell you this is wrong are medical doctors who base it on physical and scientific evidence that this is harmful for the child. But no, you should ignore all scientific advice and follow the dictates of a 7th century savage, the allah zombie that you are.
By the way, there is a web site called free-minds or something run by your co-religionist ahmad-something. Why don't you go there and discuss your viewpoint with him?