I Love Her ,That's Why I Hate Islam

[rishabh66sharma]

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[Ram]

rishabh66sharma,

Stop torturing yourself. She is not worth it. If she loves you she will convert to Hinduism. If she does not like Hindu religion she can convert to Buddhism or Sikhism. You will get over it. It is very likely that what you are feeling is not love but infatuation. Her family will make your life and your parents life miserable.

But there is one thing you can do. Educate her about Islam. Show her the books written by Muslims which prove that Islam is evil. But there is no need for you to say that, she will learn that from books on her own. There is ample information available in this website which will show how to deal with Muslims. I recommend that you read the articles written by Dr. Ali Sina on this website. He explains Islam better than most. He is not afraid to use the right language without any politically correct nonsense.

[rishabh66sharma]

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[Lili]

hey dude sorry but don't use any harsh comments for her she is my girl and please don't say she don't deserve love and all please try to respect the love.Now i know its not easy to marry a muslim girl because the muslims will try to take action on that but the city in which i live is like completely of hindus and no one can even touch me or my family there because 80% are hindus there and all hindus have unity there.Now i am even trying to teach her about the evils for women in islam but what i feel for her is that she is quite affraid of accepting the truth because its not easy for a muslim girl to leave islam.well i have no problem if she even get married to me as a muslim i won't force her to change her religion.

You are a sweet and respectful guy, rishabh. If you want her to face the evils of islam (which I am sure she's already aware of, but still afraid to admit it), don't be pushy. Just present her with some reading material and let her do the thinking. If she's a smart girl, she'll come to the right conclusion.

I wish you the best with your girl.

[rishabh66sharma]

thanks a lot dear it was really relief giving .hope she will understand

[Gauge123]

You are only 19...give yourself a chance to grow up...do as you have to...but realise you have a long way to go and do not get unduly caught in the moment. We have all been there...so...please listen....do not get carried away.

Behave, pause, think...then act.

[skynightblaze]

Hello Rishabh,
I am also a brahmin .Welcome to FFI!.

Coming to the point I think the girl needs to understand that islam is coming in between you and her.She has to make up her mind and she needs to sacrifice her religion for you.If the girl herself isnt ready to axe her religion then I dont think there is any other solution for you 2 other than breaking up.I really dont understand how people can give religion their first priority than their love. If your religion is preventing you from living with a person where your happiness lies then that religion is simply not worth living. I suppose people follow religion because it gives them peace of mind or happiness but if islam is not giving your girl the happiness that then how can that religion be good for her? Just ask her this question.

[rishabh66sharma]

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[rishabh66sharma]

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[Gauge123]

dude i have done everything to forget her but its like impossible for me to do so.you don't know brother how much i love her and for her my love is true and pure in fact she too loves me a lot but due to the fear of the religion and with a fear of both of our future in danger if she marries to me ,she always used to remain silent with pain in her heart and eyes and face when we talk about our future.

You said its a long way for me to go but dude i want to travel this long way with her.

you will call me mad or a psycho but i have cut my hand several times from blade whenever we had a fight (its true i can show you the pics too , {i shoot them for memories} ).

Steady son...listen to me...when you are young, emotions are extremely strong. Take stock of yourself and your principles. I am not telling you what to do. I am asking you to think.

Now think.

[Luna]

Show her the letter (on a main site you can find it- freedom from religion) from a 17 years ex-muslim girl, who discovered by herself that Islam is evil. And be aware of her relatives- I saw with my own eyes the "honour killing" once.

[diotima64]

dude i have done everything to forget her but its like impossible for me to do so.you don't know brother how much i love her and for her my love is true and pure in fact she too loves me a lot but due to the fear of the religion and with a fear of both of our future in danger if she marries to me ,she always used to remain silent with pain in her heart and eyes and face when we talk about our future.

You said its a long way for me to go but dude i want to travel this long way with her.

you will call me mad or a psycho but i have cut my hand several times from blade whenever we had a fight (its true i can show you the pics too , {i shoot them for memories} ).

Steady son...listen to me...when you are young, emotions are extremely strong. Take stock of yourself and your principles. I am not telling you what to do. I am asking you to think.

Now think.

Principles make for cold bedfellowes. And age doesn´t make one´s feelings necessarily any weaker... just maybe less hormone driven. At 19, "love" is somewhat transitory, in most cases. Not to demean what the young man feels... am sure he´s sincere.

[Sten]

It's not worth it bro. I know that sounds like a cop out, but her first loyalty is to her family, and unless she was planning to go it alone anyway, she will choose them over you every time. Your condemnation of her religion will not be welcome, and she will think you are trying to disrupt her life. Most people do not like to rock the boat, and are happy with the status quo. If she is an exceptional person then she might leave Islam by herself, using her own intelligence, but you cannot be the one to make her apostasize. It just doesn't work that way. At best you would have an unfulfilling, frustrating relationship with her religious hang-ups getting in the way of everything.

There's always the possibility that she just isn't interested in you, and used the "never loving a non-Muslim" as an excuse. Girls don't generally like it when guys show too much affection early on, all at once. Next time try making her wonder if you like her, they like to be unsure for some reason. Women will always pick the aloof guy over the attentive one.

There will be plenty of other fish in the sea. Next time maybe you can find someone who isn't so strictly bound by stupid religious rules.

[rishabh66sharma]

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[Sten]

well guys i don't know what to do ,the religion is coming in my way i really don't know how t tackle it
i don't know what i will do next

Try giving her some space. Don't talk to her unless she talks to you, don't call her, don't even look at her unless she engages you first. When you do interact with her, keep it short and polite and always have somewhere you need to go soon. She will immediately wonder what she did to make you behave this way and it will stick in her mind. Give her a taste of that "does he or doesn't he like me" feeling that girls love so much, and if she liked you in the first place, she will come back to you. Women enjoy being excited by uncertainty, they feel it is boring if they know for sure that a guy likes them. They will pick uncertainty over sureness every time because they like the drama. They like to feel as though they are in the middle of their own romantic movie. It is VERY hard for a guy to pretend to be disinterested when he really likes a girl, but it is worth it.

If she isn't interested, and she doesn't talk to you again, no great loss, find yourself another nice girl.

One thing you must trust me on - the less interest you show, the more interest she will have for you (if she was interested to begin with). This is just how women are wired. If you make her attracted to you in this way, the religion shouldn't be too much of a barrier, she won't be able to stop thinking about you, her religion will seem less important. The more pressure you put on her to date or marry you, the less she will want to, it is because there is no romantic challenge for her.

You can pay attention to my advice, or not, but I am right about this.

[rishabh66sharma]

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[rishabh66sharma]

well guys i don't know what to do ,the religion is coming in my way i really don't know how t tackle it
i don't know what i will do next

Try giving her some space. Don't talk to her unless she talks to you, don't call her, don't even look at her unless she engages you first. When you do interact with her, keep it short and polite and always have somewhere you need to go soon. She will immediately wonder what she did to make you behave this way and it will stick in her mind. Give her a taste of that "does he or doesn't he like me" feeling that girls love so much, and if she liked you in the first place, she will come back to you. Women enjoy being excited by uncertainty, they feel it is boring if they know for sure that a guy likes them. They will pick uncertainty over sureness every time because they like the drama. They like to feel as though they are in the middle of their own romantic movie. It is VERY hard for a guy to pretend to be disinterested when he really likes a girl, but it is worth it.

If she isn't interested, and she doesn't talk to you again, no great loss, find yourself another nice girl.

One thing you must trust me on - the less interest you show, the more interest she will have for you (if she was interested to begin with). This is just how women are wired. If you make her attracted to you in this way, the religion shouldn't be too much of a barrier, she won't be able to stop thinking about you, her religion will seem less important. The more pressure you put on her to date or marry you, the less she will want to, it is because there is no romantic challenge for her.

You can pay attention to my advice, or not, but I am right about this.

well dear sten i went through your advice and i am sticking on it
lets see whether she comes back to me or not
but that would not change my love for her

[Sten]

No problem bro, any time.

[rishabh66sharma]

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[rishabh66sharma]

hey ya one more thing
does anyone knows anything about the "Special Marriage Act Between Hindu and Muslim" in India.
i heard something of it on the internet