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marriage between hindu man muslim women are quite common

PostPosted: Wed Jun 24, 2009 9:42 am
by compassion
Marriages between a Hindu man and a Muslim woman are becoming quite common in the Sub-Continent,However not many show it in Public.
Example of Hindu Man-Muslim Woman Marriage is:
* Urdu author Krishan Chander married Salma Siddiqui
* Actor Mohammad Iqbal Khan married Sneha Chhabra
* Actor Shahrukh Khan married Gauri Chibber
* Actor Hritik Roshan married Suzanne Khan
* Actor Atul Agnihotri married Alvira Khan, actor Salman Khan's Sister
* Actor Feroz Khan's daughter Laila Khan Rajpal married Rohit Rajpal
* Actor Sanjay Khan's daughter Simone Khan Arora married Ajay Arora
* Criminal Lawyer Mahesh Jethmalani married Haseena Jethmalani
* Crickter Ajit Agarkar married Fathima Agarkar
* Actor Sunil Dutt married Actress Nargis Dutt
* MP Sachin Pilot,Son of the Late Rajesh Pilot married Sara Abdullah,Daughter of Former Kashmir Chief Minister Farooq Abdullah and Sister of Omar Abdullah
* Arun Ahuja married the former Nazeem, now known as Nirmala Devi, parents of Govinda
*Bollywood Movie Director Mahesh Bhatt had a Hindu father and Muslim Shite mother , but they were never married and never lived together.
*Director/Choreographer Farah Khan married Director Shirish Kunder
*Actress Nagma's (Nandita Morarji) father Sri Arvind Pratapsinh Morarji married muslim woman Seema.
*Gangster turned Politician Arun Gawli from Mumbai married a muslim lady named Ayesha who later took up name as Asha.
*Actor Manoj Bajpai married muslim woman Shabana Raza who is also called as Neha.
*Actor Pankaj Kapoor (Father of actor Shahid Kapoor) married a muslim woman Neelima Azeem.
*Actress Jyothika's (Nagma's Sister) father Chander Sadhana married a muslim lady Seema.

Re: marriage between hindu man muslim women are quite common

PostPosted: Wed Jun 24, 2009 10:46 am
by yeezevee
Common compassion , catch their e-mails and Call them to ffi.. lol.. you have a good list., But I guess all of them are from India..

Any ways compassion welcome to ffi., Good to see that inter religious sexual nteractions. I wonder about the products of such interactions., the output may be either Sufis or terrorists or yeezevees.. lol.. they can not be NORMAL persons.

with best wishes
yeezevee

Re: marriage between hindu man muslim women are quite common

PostPosted: Wed Jun 24, 2009 11:53 am
by compassion
dear yazazvee

marriage between hindu man and muslim women is anathema. it is not with these people. change happens like that resistance, apathy and acceptance.
products of hindu man has not produced terrorists but simple human being as i know.
thank you for welcomming me.

slowly things will change and explode at a later stage. the world is going to see much turmoil soon.
wars starts because of lack of resources. theses resources are limited now to satisfy the human population explosion. now the bigger war is due. much destruction.
compassion and love is my way of life.

Re: marriage between hindu man muslim women are quite common

PostPosted: Wed Jun 24, 2009 1:11 pm
by yeezevee
compassion says
dear yazazvee
Yes sir..Yazaz... reporting.,.../damn sounds like zoo there

marriage between hindu man and muslim women is anathema. it is not with these people. change happens like that resistance, apathy and acceptance.
products of hindu man has not produced terrorists but simple human being as i know.
really here take this link
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dhiren_Barot and every Muslim if you goes back in time, I am sure he will find a hindu..a pagan or Jew or Christian as their ancestor. Even that Good man Alama Iqbal who fought for Land of pure also come from Hindu Brahman family..

read this link about Hindu guy.. Mr. Dhiren_Barot http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dhiren_Barot

slowly things will change and explode at a later stage. the world is going to see much turmoil soon.
wars starts because of lack of resources. theses resources are limited now to satisfy the human population explosion. now the bigger war is due. much destruction.
you are such a pessimist., well for that one has to work., The planet has enough resources to feed all, to cloth all and house well., yes Population explosion is a problem but we can work out China did very well with force., Japan and west did very well without force and with education., Yes it is true, if Islam is the way of life.. Muhammad is the way ..yes Population explodes., But i am sure they will come around. they are afterall intelligent human beings..

But..but your way of staying in CAVES doesn't help anything dear compassion

compassion and love is my way of life.
well that is all good on paper., but that doesn't feed and going in to caves is no help ..

with best regards
yeezevee

Re: marriage between hindu man muslim women are quite common

PostPosted: Wed Jun 24, 2009 2:27 pm
by Yohan
compassion wrote:Marriages between a Hindu man and a Muslim woman are becoming quite common in the Sub-Continent,However not many show it in Public.

May be you need to restate by saying that such marriages have become common compared to Muslim man - Hindu woman marriages. These are what Indian call 'love marriages'. Such marriages are very rare in the subcontinent. Almost all marriages (some 97%) are arranged marriages and they are within the same castes or communities. Indians are endogamous by caste and religions, and exceptions are rare. So your wording of 'quite common' is incorrect.

Welcome to the forum!

Re: marriage between hindu man muslim women are quite common

PostPosted: Wed Jun 24, 2009 4:24 pm
by compassion
Dear yeezevee,

i love to debate it is how we learn. debate is most common between shcolors in indian society in the subcontient from the time immemorial. it is the debate to learn humbly. if it is not for resources why do we fight. we fought with our siblings on limited resources. is not so. we cannot say there is abundance at the time of fight. we fight for resources.

as regards population explosion whatever the reason whether it is muslims or otherwise is a major problems as resources divided and subdivided among more people. many conflicts are due to lack of resources. understand in a correct perspective the words lack of resources. it may be just a mental pheneomenon. we want some thing but we cannot get. we try many ways to get. this is the reason why god and religions came into existence.

i am ready to learn humbly if you can throw some good points to learn.

compassion

Re: marriage between hindu man muslim women are quite common

PostPosted: Wed Jun 24, 2009 5:42 pm
by Yohan
compassion wrote:products of hindu man has not produced terrorists but simple human being as i know.

Did you forget about the now defeated Tamil Hindu terrorists in Sri Lanka? It was they who popularized suicide bombing.

Re: marriage between hindu man muslim women are quite common

PostPosted: Wed Jun 24, 2009 5:54 pm
by compassion
dear yohan
srilankan fight is not about religious wars it is for equal treatment and and for a seperate state for tamils. i may not support terrorism in any form. but here we are talking of religious terrorism. and the site is for religious terrorism.

compassion

Re: marriage between hindu man muslim women are quite common

PostPosted: Wed Jun 24, 2009 6:14 pm
by Yohan
compassion wrote:dear yohan
srilankan fight is not about religious wars it is for equal treatment and and for a seperate state for tamils. i may not support terrorism in any form. but here we are talking of religious terrorism. and the site is for religious terrorism.

There is a religious undertone in Sri Lanka in addition to the ethnic conflict. In any case, your claim that Hindu man has never produced terrorists do not hold water.

Maoists in India have just been declared terrorists by the Goverment. They are Hindus. RSS group, which killed Gandhi was a Hindu fanatic terrorist group which was banned for a long time.

Re: marriage between hindu man muslim women are quite common

PostPosted: Wed Jun 24, 2009 6:21 pm
by yeezevee
Dear yeezevee,

i love to debate it is how we learn. debate is most common between shcolors in indian society in the subcontient from the time immemorial. it is the debate to learn humbly. if it is not for resources why do we fight. we fought with our siblings on limited resources. is not so. we cannot say there is abundance at the time of fight. we fight for resources.

as regards population explosion whatever the reason whether it is muslims or otherwise is a major problems as resources divided and subdivided among more people. many conflicts are due to lack of resources. understand in a correct perspective the words lack of resources. it may be just a mental pheneomenon. we want some thing but we cannot get. we try many ways to get. this is the reason why god and religions came into existence.

i am ready to learn humbly if you can throw some good points to learn.

compassion
No.. noo dear compassion you are very defensive., Let us NOT be TOO humble here., Stick to your guns. I have no doubt in my mind that various cultures from India/subcontinent contributed enormously for the welfare of humanity. There is little doubt on that., Any ways please continue to read and write..

with best wishes
yeezevee

Re: marriage between hindu man muslim women are quite common

PostPosted: Wed Jun 24, 2009 6:34 pm
by compassion
dear yeezevee

i am talking about learning. learning and humbleness goes together. without humblenes we cannot learn.
as regards your comment and judgement about me as reagards my reactiveness i will examine myself to learn and correct my self.
thanks for comment.
as regards and compassion and love if we are not compassionate and loving we should not be here to discuss.
it is not on paper you and me and others like are here with compassion and love.

thanks for the suggestion.
compassion

Re: marriage between hindu man muslim women are quite common

PostPosted: Wed Jun 24, 2009 6:46 pm
by compassion
Dear yeezevee

we can only learn with humbleness. i am referring about hublenes while learning and both goes together.
as regards you comment and judgment on me about my defensives i will examine myself and try to correct myself.
thanks for your judgement and comment
as regards your comment on love and compassion on paper only. if not for love and compassion towards fellow human being and our future generation what for we are here. you and me and others great people here with compassion and love.

thanks and regards
compassion

Re: marriage between hindu man muslim women are quite common

PostPosted: Wed Jun 24, 2009 7:56 pm
by compassion
Dear yohan
There is a religious undertone in Sri Lanka in addition to the ethnic conflict. In any case, your claim that Hindu man has never produced terrorists do not hold water.

Maoists in India have just been declared terrorists by the Goverment. They are Hindus. RSS group, which killed Gandhi was a Hindu fanatic terrorist group which was banned for a long time.


tamil problem is a tamil language problem not a religion problem otherwise it would have been associated with religion problem. i mean linguistic identity. yes there is religiou undertone from srilankan side. as i understand after getting independence for british tamils are marginalised and were treated badly in all spheres of life.
britishers time they enjoyed good power and positions. and also srilankan peoploe they dont have loose the identity of only ilsand budhist nation by cultural dilution due to tamils.

this is my view

maoists are not basically hindus or any other religion they are simply maoists. all types of people are there in that
as regards the person who killed gandhi there is no strong evidence that he attended rss shaka or associated strongly with rss.

thank you

compassionate

Re: marriage between hindu man muslim women are quite common

PostPosted: Wed Jun 24, 2009 7:59 pm
by compassion
dear yohan

when i am talking about product of hindu man. i am referring about the children of hindu man and muslim women.
i said that i have not seen that kind of terrorists comming from that kind of family.

thank you.
compassionate

Re: marriage between hindu man muslim women are quite common

PostPosted: Thu Jun 25, 2009 3:59 pm
by dewanand
namaskar all FFI,

My father was from a Hindu family and my mother was born in a muslim family. This means that I am mixed hindu/muslim, but after many years I converted to Hinduism, because it is far more superior than all other Abrahamic faiths on this tiny wrecked planet.

One thing more.
Inbreeding among all etnical populations is a big problem all over the world. In the Netherlands many Turkish people are marrying with their close grade family and many of their children are not healthy, but born with genetic disorders. ONe study proved that almost twenty percent of the Turkish children are born sick, because of inbreeding. One solution is to forbid marriages between closely related people. In Hindu culture they go till the fourtieth grade and that is very wise.

so, what I want to tell is that it is very healthy that people from different etnical, cultural of religious backgrounds are marrying and produce offspring, because then their will be no inbreeding. But the children must study the Vedas and become Vedistanis of course, otherwise we will have one enemy more on our world.

Love breaks all walls and limits.
Listen to your heart and forget about religion.

Dewanand

Re: marriage between hindu man muslim women are quite common

PostPosted: Thu Jun 25, 2009 4:22 pm
by Yohan
dewanand wrote:My father was from a Hindu family and my mother was born in a muslim family. This means that I am mixed hindu/muslim, but after many years I converted to Hinduism, because it is far more superior than all other Abrahamic faiths on this tiny wrecked planet.

One thing more.
Inbreeding among all etnical populations is a big problem all over the world. In the Netherlands many Turkish people are marrying with their close grade family and many of their children are not healthy, but born with genetic disorders. ONe study proved that almost twenty percent of the Turkish children are born sick, because of inbreeding. One solution is to forbid marriages between closely related people. In Hindu culture they go till the fourtieth grade and that is very wise.

It is not correct to paint the whole Hindu culture of the subcontinent with one brush, on the aspect of marriage customs except caste based endogamy. May be in your father's community it is correct. I know Hindu communities where the custom is marrying first cousins.

Re: marriage between hindu man muslim women are quite common

PostPosted: Fri Jun 26, 2009 2:04 am
by secularmindedhindu
Yohan wrote:There is a religious undertone in Sri Lanka in addition to the ethnic conflict. In any case, your claim that Hindu man has never produced terrorists do not hold water.

LTTE was not fighting for the cause of the Hindus. They were fighting for the cause of the ethnic Tamils in Sri Lanka. LTTE had many Christians in its ranks and files.

Yohan wrote:Maoists in India have just been declared terrorists by the Goverment. They are Hindus. RSS group, which killed Gandhi was a Hindu fanatic terrorist group which was banned for a long time.


Not all Maoists are Hindus. In Orissa it has been estimated that about 70% of the Maoists are Christians.
Nathusam Godse who killed Gandhi was once a member of RSS. But he left RSS at one point of time. When he killed Gandhi he was not a member of RSS. So you cannot link RSS with the assassination of Gandhi. Remember, that in RSS was banned 3 times for political reasons. But the ban had to be revoked after a brief period. As of today, RSS in a legitimate organisation. It is operating legally in India. None of the inernational bodies and western countries have declared their activities as illegal. So if you want to criticise RSS, please provide justification for the same.

Re: marriage between hindu man muslim women are quite common

PostPosted: Fri Jun 26, 2009 2:06 am
by secularmindedhindu
Yohan wrote:It is not correct to paint the whole Hindu culture of the subcontinent with one brush, on the aspect of marriage customs except caste based endogamy. May be in your father's community it is correct. I know Hindu communities where the custom is marrying first cousins.

I have never seen a Hindu marrying his/her first cousin. The first cousin is almost regarded as similar to own brother or sister.

Re: marriage between hindu man muslim women are quite common

PostPosted: Fri Jun 26, 2009 4:00 am
by kenmirzz
so, what I want to tell is that it is very healthy that people from different etnical, cultural of religious backgrounds are marrying and produce offspring, because then their will be no inbreeding.


Mr Dewanand. Agreed with you unhesitatingly.

Humanity is but one family. :)

Re: marriage between hindu man muslim women are quite common

PostPosted: Fri Jun 26, 2009 4:10 pm
by Yohan
secularmindedhindu wrote:LTTE was not fighting for the cause of the Hindus. They were fighting for the cause of the ethnic Tamils in Sri Lanka. LTTE had many Christians in its ranks and files.

Not all Maoists are Hindus. In Orissa it has been estimated that about 70% of the Maoists are Christians.

Tamils are atleast 95% Hindu, so are the Maoists! The claim was Hindus do not create terrorists. That claim is wrong.
Nathusam Godse who killed Gandhi was once a member of RSS. But he left RSS at one point of time. When he killed Gandhi he was not a member of RSS. So you cannot link RSS with the assassination of Gandhi. Remember, that in RSS was banned 3 times for political reasons. But the ban had to be revoked after a brief period. As of today, RSS in a legitimate organisation. It is operating legally in India. None of the inernational bodies and western countries have declared their activities as illegal. So if you want to criticise RSS, please provide justification for the same.

"His (Godse's) ties to the Hindu right-wing organisation, the Rashtriya Swayamsevak Sangh (RSS) led to its ban soon after Gandhi's assassination. The Rashtriya Swayamsevak Sangh (RSS) to this day deny any connection with Godse and dispute the claim that he was a member."
http://www.economicexpert.com/a/Nathuram:Godse.html

The way you write seems to convey that you defend Hindu hardliners in all instances, while claiming 'secular'. Typical Hindu lie I presume. More of it was evident in your denial of ties between Sikhism and Islam, but not Hinduism, in another thread. Even when concrete proof was presented, and what everyone else knows well, and when others jolted you on this, you simply walked away. You seem to suffer from too much Hinduism. Such a one can't be 'secular'.
I have never seen a Hindu marrying his/her first cousin. The first cousin is almost regarded as similar to own brother or sister.

If your information about Hindu customs is based upon what you have seen, you have seen nothing yet. You just don't get the complexities of a vast and deep religious culture you are defending here. Actually that is evident from many of your posts here.

Take this task as a home work and report back, so you may learn about your own religious culture better. Clue: 1955 Hindu marriage act prohibited first cousin marriage except in communties with such practises. In this particular community, the practise has diminshed greatly now.